HookUp In Local Bars: Here Are Some Strategies

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A lot of singles these days are prowling online dating sites rather than the traditional approach of going to a bar, but there are still plenty who would rather hook up face to face. There are tons of bars in every major city, and even small towns, where you can find girls who would rather hook up the old-fashioned way. If you’re going to hook up at a bar, you need the right strategy for success. Here are some valuable strategies that you can use to make your next trip to the bar an eventful and satisfying one.

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Tips For Better Hookup Success In Bars

I’m laying it all out here for you today. These tips should help increase your hookup success for sure over time if you hang out in local bars. That means more sex, more fun, and instant banging on the regular. Pay attention hot shot, you’ll want to understand all this for sure.

Use Fashion Sense (Or Get Some)

If you’re going to be among the most desirable men in the bar, you need to look the part. If you don’t have fashion sense, you need to either get some or seek the advice of someone who does. This doesn’t mean that you have to dress in a way that’s not you. Look into men’s fashion and find a style that suits you. Go to the bar looking your best.

Stand Out Among Other Guys

With both your look and your attitude; you need to stand out among all other guys at the bar. Keep your energy and confidence level up and give the ladies a reason to gravitate toward you. One thing that will help tremendously is learning to dance.

If you have some moves and comfortably move your body to the music, it will go a long way towards getting the attention of some of the hottest girls at the bar.

Eye Contact Is Important

Scan the room and be selective about who you make eye contact with. You don’t want to appear as if you are fixating on every girl in the bar until one looks back at you.

Look around and remain aloof until you spot a girl that commands your attention. Don’t look straight at her. Look past her and wait for her to look back at you. Once your eyes meet, wait for the smile. If you get the smile, move toward her.

Stand Up Straight; Be Confident

Don’t allow yourself to slouch or look lazy. Keep your shoulders up and chest out without looking like you’re strutting like a rooster. The key is to have an air of confidence and high energy. Your posture goes a long way toward helping you stand out and project the confidence needed to attract women.

Screw Pick-up Lines

No matter how many times you have read the best pick-up lines or how many friends have told you sure-fire lines that work; don’t approach girls at a bar with a rehearsed approach because it will almost never work.

Be yourself and respond to your current situation. Anything else will come off as cheesy and forced. Don’t try to impress her. Just talk to her, compliment her, and show her who you are.

These simple hookup tips will work for you, I promise. If you spend time in bars, and you do what I say, then you’ll get laid more. Use my favorite dating site, take my advice and you’ll be banging in no time.

Barhopping And Making Out With Girls

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There is a time right after college when the world is at your feet. Most likely you want to spend that time barhopping and making out with a bunch of girls. Trust me, I totally get it!

You just finished up your education that prepared you for the fun road ahead and you just want to have a little fun before you set forth on the journey through adult life. A big part of after college fun is barhopping and a big part of barhopping is making out with multiple girls. I’m not talking hooking up, just making out and having some fun before hooking up. Think of it as testing the waters before finding the one you want to take home.

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Barhopping 101: Tips For Making Out With Girls You Meet

Here are a few tips on how to make out with multiple girls while barhopping…

Learn How To Dance – One thing that is going to get you noticed by multiple girls and give you a big advantage over other guys is dancing. The better you dance, the more high caliber girls you will make out with, it’s that simple. If you don’t dance, you better be prince charming and look like Brad Pitt.

Eyes Find Eyes – If you are interested in a girl at a bar, start making eye contact. Don’t stare. Just let your eyes find each other. If she fixates on you, then you can stare. Once you make solid eye contact, start moving toward her. Make it look like you are just strolling through the bar at first then head in her direction and make your move.

If She Wants To Talk, Then Talk – Sometimes you can start dancing next to a girl on the dance floor once you’ve made eye contact and that’s enough to start the process that leads to making out. There has to be instant heat for this to happen. Otherwise, talk to her and turn on the charm.

Don’t Get Carried Away – This goes for both your advances and your alcohol intake. Don’t come on too strong or you’ll cause her to lose interest. If you get a little carried away drinking and turn into a belligerent drunk, every girl in the bar will lose interest.

Don’t Burn Your Spot, Keep Moving – It is possible to achieve making out with multiple girls in one bar or club if it’s big enough and packed with enough people (I have). Otherwise you should move on to the next bar after each make out session. If you are spotted moving from girl to girl, it could get people talking and complicate your mission, i.e. burn your spot.

These barhopping tips are important and if you play your cards right, you could find yourself instant messaging girls you’ve made out with at the bar asking them to come over to fuck. It’s very common that making out leads to banging because it’s just the nature of it all.