The title of this post may sound corny but don’t discount it. When you kiss a girl for the first time, it matters. You need to be successful too if you want to fuck her. Let me paint a picture for you…You meet a girl that you like, you turn on the charm and ask her out. You’re having a nice time and she is responding to your flirting. It feels like the time is right for that first kiss. This can be tricky sometimes. Neither person is familiar with how the other one kisses. You are both wondering if sparks are going to fly or just a lot of saliva. This is a crucial moment and many guys tend to mess up on the first time. This can really set you back and possibly ruin any chances of a second date. That’s a lot of pressure. That’s why I put together some tips on how to make that first kiss count every time.
Successfully Kiss A Girl For The First Time
As previously stated, these tips are to help you kiss a girl for the first time in hopes of it leading to sex (eventually). There are plenty of first kisses that you’re going to get with girls. Especially if you are using a casual dating service such as Instabang. These tips should help you out on each and every occasion.
Make sure there are no distractions: For that moment of the first kiss, it should be just you and her with no distractions. You need that first few seconds to feel each other out and other people being around could complicate things. If you’ve been drinking at the local bar and you’re both liquored up, then perfect! If there are any distractions, they are likely to not be your fault.
Don’t ruin the moment by talking about it: The last thing you want to do is ask if you can kiss her or talk about it before you do it. It is okay to bring it up beforehand when you are flirting, but talking about it in the moment could kill the mood and make things awkward.
Don’t rush into it: There is nothing wrong with waiting for your moment. If you are having a good date, the time will come. Just let it happen naturally and pay attention to when the moment is right.
It doesn’t hurt to test the waters: Be sure not to wait too long and miss your moment. This could make you feel more anxiety about doing it. If you’re not sure, just lean in for a small kiss on the lips then pull back and look at her. The look in her eyes will tell you whether to go back in for the full kiss.
Move in closer to her before you kiss: By simply sitting closer to her, you can gauge her reaction and amp up the sexual tension at the same time. Maybe even flirt with her and look her in the eye before moving in. Simple but it works.
Touch her: By touch her I don’t mean grope her. Make the touches subtle and flirty to turn up the heat. Touch her arm or better yet, caress her hand or put your hand on her leg. If she responds well to your touches, it is usually safe to make your move.
Moisten your lips: The does not mean to stick your tongue out and wet your whole mouth. A subtle moistening will send a signal to her to get ready for a kiss. If you have dry chapped lips then spend a couple bucks to invest in some chapstick.
Stay calm during the kiss: The last thing you want to do is get carried away. Don’t get too intense or use your tongue right away. Take it slow and sensual and don’t make it overly long. Unless, of course, you got a live one and she really goes after you. These are rare occurrences so just go with the flow.
Watch your hand movement: You don’t want this first kiss to be overly sexual so avoid touching her in a sexual way. Gently touching her face, the side of her head, her shoulder or her waist is fine. Just keep it subtle.
Well, those are my tips on how to kiss a girl for the first time. Whether you’re one of these people that prefer to use a shitty eHarmony site looking for love, or you prefer casual fucking the same rules apply. I have been on many first dates where I didn’t think I would get lucky but the kiss changed everything. It really does make a difference in dating, period. Heck, I shit you not when I say that a good first kiss can even lead to having more than just steady casual sex. I’ve had it lead to having a threesome even!