Where To Meet Local Hot Women In Your Town

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It is quite difficult to meet women in places around any town or city these days. Thanks to social media, smartphone apps and online dating sites, you can detect horny women around you, however, it can still be really tough to score a woman in your local area. Thankfully, there are still places where you can meet hot women that you can try your luck with and may even end up having a date with or even better, banging them. It all takes a bit of confidence from you as well as being in the right place at the right time. There are plenty of fish to catch in the sea you just need to know how to meet women.

If you are not sure where to start your search for the perfect sex partner, that’s where I come into play here. The following are some of the best places where you can meet women and strike a conversation without looking like a creep. Again, don’t be a fucking creep here. You’ve got to play the game still. This might help you though.

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Places To Meet Women Around Town

At The Grocery Store

The grocery store is a great place to meet new women. However, striking a conversation with a woman at a grocery store is tricky business. No matter what, do not start your conversation at the grocery store with a pun or a pickup line that you would usually see in movies. Women are not expecting you to “hit on them” in the grocery store and it can immediately turn their defensive mode on.

Instead, try to strike a conversation with a woman while you are waiting in the checkout queue or along the shelves of healthy food. Here you can simply tell her that you are quite impressed with her choice of that salmon or steak or salad. From there on you can discuss a new recipe with her and even talk to her about how she cooks her food.

When you show her that you too have an interest in healthy eating, there is no doubt that you will immediately make a connection with her. If this particular store is her “go-to” grocery store, then you can try and go at the same time next week and see if you run into her again.

It may help you take things to the next level. Also, as soon as you get to the grocery store, I recommend that you log into a good hook up site like Instabang to see if any women at the store are members of the site. This may up your chances of getting laid.

At The Gym

The local gym is an excellent place to meet hot and healthy women. You can approach them and talk to them about diets and workout plans during your break. Just don’t go and talk to someone while they’re exercising because they will probably ignore you.

Doing so will give off the wrong vibe and you’ll blow your chances. Trust me, no one likes the guy that interrupts people during their workouts. He’s super annoying and yes, people talk about him all the time behind his back. So I urge you not to be that guy.

At The Coffee Shop

Coffee shops are classics when it comes to finding women. A lot of people go there to relax and read the paper or do whatever they want. Find an opportunity to strike a conversation because at that time they are pretty relaxed and open to discussion.

Keep the conversation light and simple. If you get the vibe that the person you’re talking to isn’t into you then I suggest you move on. But if they are into you, go ahead and ask them if you can sit down to talk to them.

These are all perfect ways to meet women in the local area. Try out one or two of them and let me know how it goes. Remember, don’t come on too strong here. Play it cool and you actually might be able to go on a date with a local girl.

How To Break Up With Someone

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Breaking up with your girlfriend or boyfriend can be devastating for both of you. It is not an easy thing to do and a lot of people end up hurting each other a lot. But if you really want to break up, then you have no choice of coming clean. If you plan on using a casual sex site, then I recommend that you break up immediately.

You can always minimize the damage that breaking up with someone might result in. Here are some good ways to break up with your boyfriend or girlfriend. I actually called with quits with my girlfriend awhile back before I started using Instabang. It was the best thing I’ve done in years.

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Break Up With Someone The Correct Way

Timing

The timing of break is very important. If a certain important event is coming in someone’s life, hold off on the announcement and let them get through that important event first. Once the event is over, you can then come clean and tell the other person that you want things to end. Putting added stress on someone during an important event is a bad idea. It’s not going to help you or your partner one bit. In fact, it might make you look like a dickhead if you do it before the event. You’ll look like an asshole, plain and simple.

Be Personal

Never break up over the phone or text messages or on Facebook. If you have been together for a long time, the other person deserves to know everything in detail and in person. If you cannot face your partner, then the next beast option would be to break up over the phone. The phone option is the very last resort. I urge you to meet in person so you look like a stand-up person.

If you can and have the courage, it is always less damaging to meet the person and talk about the difference and end it there. Sometimes you can end things in a very civil manner in person.

Don’t Be Harsh

If you know your partner is sensitive and doesn’t take things like these lightly, try not to be harsh and avoid blaming them. If you do that it will leave a very bad scar on their heart and they might find trouble being themselves in the future.

Always be polite if you are the one to break up because you don’t want to leave bad memories for the other person. Trust me, you’re definitely better off leaving on good terms because you never know what the future may bring between you and this person mentioned.

Be Ready

When you are going to announce that you want to break up, expect things to get out of hand. Be ready for things to heat up and try to remain as calm as possible. The last thing you want to do is to end things on a very bad note.

Avoid the fight, be calm and don’t let things get too much out of control.

Don’t Lie

No matter what happens, if you are going to break up with someone, be honest with them. Don’t lie about the relationship and let them know exactly why you are breaking up with them. It also includes if you have found someone better, then let them know. Of course, if you’re already having sex with someone you met online, then you don’t need to go into too much detail. However, it’s best to not let the person think that it’s their fault if it’s not.

What Does Friends With Benefits Mean?

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Friends with benefits, also known as FWB, is a casual sexual relationship with the opposite sex which does not include any emotional commitment. Having friends with benefits is a dream come true for most people because they don’t have to get into any kind of emotional connection with the other person and it all just revolves around having casual sex. But if you are not careful, this kind of hook up relationship can be turned into a disaster.

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The Meaning Of Having Friends With Benefits

When you decide to get into ‘friends with benefits’ with someone, try to steer clear of the following:

Never Fall In Love

No matter what happens, do not start to fall in love with the person you are having this relationship with. That goes for especially if you’re using a dating site that caters to people that just want to bang. Falling in love with someone is more than just sex, it’s a whole different emotional connection and you simply don’t want to get into it if you are there just for casual sex.

Never Tell Your Friends About It

You don’t want to tell your friends that you are having a casual sexual only relationship with the person. What if your friends start liking the person you are just having sex with? This could get really bad for your friendship so make sure never to introduce this person to your friends or family.

Don’t Try To Go On Serious Dates

Avoid at all costs going on a “serious” date with the person you are having a “sex only” relationship. Remember when I said do not fall in love with them no matter what happens? If you start dating the person on the regular and you start spending a lot of time with them, an emotional connection will build up and feelings will start to blossom. They may want a long term relationship at that point. It happens every single time.

Don’t Talk About Anything Too Personal

Getting too personal with this special friend can result in one blossoming feeling of love and more. Try not to discuss any emotional and private stuff about your life. If you really want to talk to them, talk to them about sex. Your relationship with this person should only be limited to sex and your topic of discussion should also be limited to things that aren’t emotional.

Follow these pointers and you will definitely have a great time enjoying your friends with benefits relationship. But remember, this kind of relationship cannot last forever because the other person may one day fall in love with someone else.

And when that happens, your friends with benefits spree will probably end. So do yourself a favor, and open doors to a possible relationship with someone else while you experience this one. The other suggestion that I have for you is to just fuck and not get attached to anyone ever. That’s always worked pretty damn well for me!

More Good Date Ideas That Might Help You Bang

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Planning on going a date with someone you met online? Perhaps you really like them and you want to bang? I’ve got some more good date ideas that may just help you get lucky. You can always take her to watch a movie together or have a nice romantic dinner somewhere. But do you really want to be the typical guy that does just dinner? I mean, there’s nothing wrong with dinner but if you’re looking for some more ideas, I’ve got you covered…

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If you really want to impress a girl and get her wooing you all over, you should definitely skip the traditional movie/theater/romantic dinner ideas and look for ideas that are not so common. This will really surprise her and she will think of you as a unique and perhaps more creative/fun person to hang with.

Here are some unique but good date ideas that break the traditional barrier of dating:

Take Her Go-Karting

Go-Karts are extremely fun and couples race in them all the times. But very few dare take their girl on a date with Go-Karts in mind. When you try to impress your girl with your amazing driving skills and knock some guys off the course you’ll give her something to laugh about.  When you finish, you will realize that she enjoyed the experience a lot more than she would have on a movie or a dinner. Getting her to really enjoy something is key to getting her to want to bang you.

Karaoke Night At A Bar

If you’re looking for good date ideas, then you need to find the local karaoke bar! Karaoke is fun if both of you like music. Even if you don’t particularly like music, hitting up the karaoke bar is still fun. It includes drinks, dancing and an excuse to make yourself look like an idiot. Both of you will have a nice connection going on when you try to sing with each other. Try to impress her with your vocals or go completely silly if you want to make her laugh. Karaoke nights are usually very fun and are extremely successful for dating. I’ve fucked a few girls after a night of bad singing. It doesn’t matter how you sound on the mic. Trust me on that one!

Take Her To The Park

A local park is an excellent place to go on a date. However, it’s important that you check with the girl to make sure she’s a nature girl. If you both are nature lovers, going to nice park will really put you two in a good mood. Bring some wine, cheese, and other snacks. You can even head to the park at night if you dare. Find a good spot and lie down and watch clouds or stars at night. From there on you can try and put the moves on the girl you met online. After all, you both connected to fuck and there’s a good chance she’ll be down to fuck if you play your cards right!

Cook With Her

Now this is something very different but if you do it right, it can do wonders for you. Women really like a man who can cook. So why not hit her place or take her to yours for a good home cooking experience. Tell her you wanted to experiment with a new recipe and you would appreciate if she could help you out. This has worked well in the past for me. I’ve been in situations where I start cooking, crack a bottle of wine open and next thing you know I’m fucking the girl I invited over on my kitchen counter.

That should be plenty of good date ideas for you! Let me know if you need anymore and I’ll be glad to help!

How To Get Someone To Like You

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Getting someone to like you is all about having a balanced attitude. If you get too nice, they will probably start considering you as a friend. And if you are too much of an asshole, they might just want to get away from you. If you’re too nice, they may be suspect, LOL.

The perfect way to get a girl to like you is keeping balanced between being nice and being a badass. Some of the most powerful laws of attraction are listed below. Follow them and you will get any girl to like you in no time.

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Communication
Communication is very important when it comes to getting a girl to like you. Talk to her about everything she wants to talk about. Be sure to bring about interesting topics that capture her interest and make her laugh.

You need to treat her differently and with your maximum attention. And if she starts taking an interest in your conversation, that means she’s either interested in the conversation, you, or perhaps both. She isn’t going to fall in love with you at this point. She may never, but if you keep the conversation interesting enough, she may want to fuck you at least.

Don’t Be Too Nice
Have you heard how nice guys always fail to get the girl? It’s because they are so nice that the girl starts taking them for granted. Don’t feel bad if you have to say ‘no’ at some point. Remember that I said balance is crucial? You will have to learn to ignore her at times if you don’t want to end up landing in the friend zone. The friend zone sucks and it’s not going to get you laid. Trust me on that.

Listen To Her
There are a lot of women who enjoy talking a lot. The girl you like probably enjoys talking as well. If she’s talking then you listen. Occasionally give her advice if she asks for it or reassures her that you agree with her. Once she knows you’re a good listener, you’ll be hearing a few things that you might enjoy, especially when she’s talking to you about things she likes when it comes to sex. Be sure to pay very close attention!

Body Language Is Important
If you want a girl to like you, you have to get a little physical. You can casually hug her or even touch her shoulders and arms from time to time. This is especially true if you’re on a first hookup date that’s extremely casual and geared towards getting laid. See how she reacts to your actions.

If she starts returning your touches with some of her own, this is a huge hint that she has secretly started to feel attracted to you.

Surprise Her
Surprise her with occasional text messages and emails. Just make sure you keep it private. What I mean by that is that you don’t want to blast it socially on any websites other than a dating site. Send her good morning and good night messages but make sure you don’t do it on a daily basis. Keep a nice balance and surprise her often with small things like messaging at random times.

That about sums up my tips for getting a girl to like you. If that’s not enough, then I’d suggest you move on to another girl. In fact, just look for one online and try to set up a date with her today.

Some Signs She Wants To Bang You

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Getting a girl to go on a date with you is just the first step. You still have to try and get her to want to hook up with you, even if you’re using a casual dating site. Being that women are complicated, they can sometimes send a lot of mixed signals to men. Good news is that the girls on Instabang are like that for the most part. however, some of them are. And men being men, always think that a woman who is just trying to be a woman is trying to seduce them into having sex with them. Guys, don’t be idiots. Instead, just make sure you know what to look for in order to determine if she wants to bang you.

Most women are not interested in sex as much as men. So don’t be stupid and don’t be caught off guard if you ask her to bang and the answer she leaves you with is a flat out no.

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If you want to know if a particular woman you like, wants to have sex with you, she will likely give you a few very strong signals. Men with no experience will understand what the fuck I’m talking about now. If that’s you then don’t panic. We are here to help! If you’re someone who doesn’t know what the signals of a girl are that might want to bang, we’re here to help.

Here Are Some Signs She Wants To Bang You:

She’s Constantly Licking Her Lips

I know, it’s a pretty basic sign but it’s true. A lot of women lick their lips over and over when they are thinking about having sex or if something turns them on. If the girl you’re with is constantly licking her lips in front of you, she is probably thinking about something dirty. In fact, it could be a plea to have sex with you. Whatever you do, keep the conversation going in a sexual direction if possible. However, don’t be direct just try to make her desire more revealing until you are sure she wants it.

She Touches You In Certain Places

I’m not saying she’s actually going to grab your dick and proclaim that she wants to fuck. That’s not what I’m saying. However, she might try and get a bit physical with you from time to time if she’s feeling frisky. If she is even a little bit interested in getting down and dirty with you, she may start touching body parts that are often off limits to strangers.

For example, if you’re on a hookup date with a girl you just met online and she touches your thighs, neck or even the back of your head, she is probably horny and ready to bang you. Don’t stop there. She’s making it obvious by touching you in places she wouldn’t dare otherwise. At that point, it’s your move!

She Wears A Revealing Dress

If she wears something that’s very sexy and revealing, she is probably trying to turn you on in some way shape or form. This might be her way of saying, “I love to dress a bit naughty and I definitely like to bang.” If that’s the impression you get then there’s a good chance you might be able to bang her. Make sure you compliment her, whatever you do! If she’s bending over a lot or putting her tits in your face then you’re in luck my friend.

Well, those are some of the simple signs to look out for in order to determine if a girl wants to bang you. Remember, keep your eye on the prize my friend and good luck! And if she wants to bang, then you better bang her good!

Things To Talk About On A First Date

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A first date is mentally tough for both the sexes, even if it is just a bang and be done kind of date. If you are going to your first date unprepared, expect to experience a lot of awkward silence. You may get to talk a bit but if you don’t know what to talk about, your date will be nothing more than silence and occasional eye contact which is a bad sign for your future. If you can’t get her talking then there’s no way you’re going to get her to have sex with you. Trust me on that. If you want to avoid these circumstances and want your date to be as positive as possible, take out a sheet of paper and start jotting down things you want to talk about. Start by listing down questions you want to ask her. This will give you a list of topics that you can try and talk about on your first date.

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The key here is to carry the conversation after you have asked a question. If you only ask a question and have nothing else to keep the conversation going within that topic, it will again end up in silence. Don’t do that. You’ll never get anywhere with that approach.

Questions You Can Ask On Your First Date

Ask your date these questions if you want to get to know her more…

Find out what makes her laugh
It’s okay to ask her what makes her laugh. Making a woman laugh is the sure shot way of getting into her pants. So start by asking her what makes her laugh a lot and then learn to make her laugh. Women love banging guys that can make them laugh. I don’t know why but they definitely do!

Ask her about her best friend (preferably male)
If she has a best male friend, you can ask her about what she likes about him. It doesn’t have to be a male but knowing what she thinks about another man can greatly help you in becoming someone she’ll like a lot. I know, it sounds a bit long term but I’m just saying, it’s important to know what she sees in guys and most likely if she’s got a best friend that’s a guy she has some good things to say about him. She will probably tell you a lot of things and from there on you can pick some points that you can fix in your own personality. Just make sure not to completely follow all the things she tells you otherwise you may become just her friend too. You’re not meeting her to make friends. You’re meeting her to hopefully have sex with her.

Ask her if she has a nickname
People have nicknames and there’s usually a funny story behind it. Make her talk about her nickname. If no one calls her by a nickname at home, at least her friends may have called her by a nickname in some point of her life. Go in details and listen to the entire story. She will probably enjoy telling you about her story and that will keep going things smooth for you. This should be enough to break the ice and keep some conversations going. You must remember that you’re not there to grill her on anything, you’re just trying to get to know her more. You’re not going to make a friend for any NSA fun if she thinks you’re treating her like this is an investigation! Keep it loose goose!

How To Last Longer In Bed For Good

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When you’re dating someone and you get the chance to bang them, the last thing you want to do is to come early! Coming earlier than desired while having sex has been a worldwide problem for a lot of men for years. There are tons of reasons why you may be experiencing premature ejaculation. While we worry a lot when we can’t last long, the problem is often very simple. I’m here to share a few tips which should help you last longer in bed. You need to know these if you’re using a site like Instabang where girls love to fuck uncontrollably for hours on end.

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Here’s How To Last Longer In Bed

One of the biggest reasons why men don’t last too long in bed is because they are often too excited about having sex. The excitement can lead to early release. Please note that it’s a well-known fact that men just don’t last as long as women when it comes to having sex. Men naturally tend to last 3 minutes on average while women can last 5-6 minutes on average during sex. This isn’t a long time, I know. But how long do you really need to get off right! As long as you’re getting laid that’s all that matters.

So, if you really want to make the girl you met on Instabang feel great and have her achieve an orgasm, then you need to control that excitement and try to last longer in bed. But if you have serious problems not lasting longer in bed, follow some of the tips below to help you increase your time. What’s even worse is getting off too soon and saying something stupid after sex. That’s a sure way to end your sex streak then and there.

Edging – Learn The Technique

Practice makes perfect. Lasting longer in sex is all about practice. If you aren’t getting the chance to practice sex with a partner, go ahead and masturbate every single day. Masturbation helps you to teach your body how to control your orgasm. There is a technique known as ‘edging’ which enables men to get very close to an orgasm and then stop and bring their excitement back to normal.

Edging has helped a lot of men deal with premature ejaculation. So sit down, think of the hottest girl you’ve ever banged, or log into the hookup site of your choice and start browsing through the naked pictures. Start pleasuring yourself and try edging as much as you can.

Squeeze Your Johnson

Did you know that when you are about to orgasm, squeezing the penis actually stops the orgasm from happening? This is because when you squeeze the penis just below the top, you reduce the pressure of the blood which in returns delay the orgasm.

You will have to tightly squeeze the penis right below the head to get maximum results. It’s okay if it hurts a little. Just don’t squeeze your unit to death! If things start turning purple that’s a really bad sign!

Use Delay Sprays

If all is lost and nothing is working for you. Try using delay creams or sprays during sex. Just remember that these cause numbing on your penis so you may not get the best out of sex. But they are strong enough to numb your penis so that the sensations are minimized and you can last longer. You may be able to find a few condoms that have this type of cream already on them to help you last longer in bed.

Try not to over-apply the cream or spray because then you may not feel anything at all and that will cause you to lose your erection very quickly. That’s the last thing that you want to do right!

These techniques should be pretty helpful when you actually get to the point where you’re ready to bang some hot girl you met online. Until then, keep practicing and keep using the Instabang dating app that you are using to find someone to bang.

Date Hookup Tips To Always Remember

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I’m going to take some time today to share a few personal date hookup tips that have helped me become one of the most successful individuals getting laid online through the use of random hookup sites. These tips are applicable no matter what site you’re using. It truly doesn’t matter at all. Just read the tips and you’ll find out why.

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Date Hookup Tips That Continue To Get Me Laid

#1 Use The Search

Want to get lucky on any hookup dating site then you better be using the search to the best of it’s capability.

If you’re simply logging on and hoping to find someone who’s going to message you and instantly bang you then you’re dreaming. You need to search them out if you want to be successful. Go for the advanced search tools too.

#2 Always Follow Up

If you’ve gotten laid and you had a nice date with a girl or even just a nice lay, then you should follow up with her after the act.

Let her know she’s not just a wham bam thank you chick (even if she is) because there’s a good chance that you might be able to have sex with her again if you play your cards right.

Make sure you don’t say something stupid after having sex with her or you won’t need to bother following up.

#3 Pay For Things

I don’t care if she insists on paying. You do not let her pay! It makes you look so much better if you pay for things and in fact, that use to be the only way it worked in the past. Open your wallet up, do not be a cheap prick. Girls to want to bang cheapsters.

#4 Be Ready To Bang

I don’t care if you’re at the horse track in the middle of a park or at a Starbucks. You should be RTB, which means always be ready to bang! If she’s down to fuck then you better be down to do the same without some lame excuse of not being prepared.

Those are my four date hookup tips for the day. If you forget any of them, just revisit this post. Matter of fact, you should save this link somewhere so you can access it before every single date! These are what I’d consider ultra hookup tips! So use them or live without the bangs!

 

Rules For Messaging Girls On Dating Sites

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Believe it or not, there are rules when it comes to messaging girls online through a dating website. Whether you’re a new member to a dating site or you’re contemplating joining one, I’d suggest you read and understand what I’m about to share with you. These tips are applicable regardless of what adult dating site you’re using. It’s inevitable that you’ll need to know this at some point in time so pay attention carefully…

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Important Rules For Messaging Girls On Dating Sites

Here’s a quick rundown for you on five things that you should never do when it comes to dating and messaging girls online.

Don’t Demand
If you sound too demanding then you’re never going to hear back from any girls. Demanding anything on a message that you send to a potential hook up will have girls running faster than Tina ran from Ike! She doesn’t work for you and you’re not the boss so cut that shit out!

Don’t Be Corny
I must also warn you that girls still do not like corny guys. They find them funny, cute and like to talk about them but they don’t like to bang them. Therefore, it’s in your best interest to not be a cornball or say anything too corny to her. For example, the “You must be sweating because you’re so damn hot” one-liners aren’t going to get you anywhere.

Don’t Look Desperate
If you look desperate the only thing a girl is going to do is for you is feel bad for you. They may take you out, make you pay but they won’t have sex with you if they think you’re desperate. So do not message a girl five times if she doesn’t respond. Just let it go and move on.

Don’t Say Strange Stuff
Girls that use online dating sites want to know that they are dealing with normal guys that just want some kind of no strings attached date, that’s all they want. They don’t want to hear something strange come out of your mouth. It’s only going to be a huge turn-off and make them think WTF, hell no!

Don’t Ask Her Out Right Away
This is pretty important. You must play it cool and not ask her out right away when you message her. Get to know that girl first before you ask her out. If you start to feel like you’re making progress then you can ask her out. If you go in for the kill too soon you’re bound to never succeed.

These are all pretty simple tips but they should help and you should definitely consider them to be staple rules for messaging girls online using any dating app or website of any nature.