Things To Talk About On A First Date


A first date is mentally tough for both the sexes, even if it is just a bang and be done kind of date. If you are going to your first date unprepared, expect to experience a lot of awkward silence. You may get to talk a bit but if you don’t know what to talk about, your date will be nothing more than silence and occasional eye contact which is a bad sign for your future. If you can’t get her talking then there’s no way you’re going to get her to have sex with you. Trust me on that. If you want to avoid these circumstances and want your date to be as positive as possible, take out a sheet of paper and start jotting down things you want to talk about. Start by listing down questions you want to ask her. This will give you a list of topics that you can try and talk about on your first date.

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The key here is to carry the conversation after you have asked a question. If you only ask a question and have nothing else to keep the conversation going within that topic, it will again end up in silence. Don’t do that. You’ll never get anywhere with that approach.

Questions You Can Ask On Your First Date

Ask your date these questions if you want to get to know her more…

Find out what makes her laugh
It’s okay to ask her what makes her laugh. Making a woman laugh is the sure shot way of getting into her pants. So start by asking her what makes her laugh a lot and then learn to make her laugh. Women love banging guys that can make them laugh. I don’t know why but they definitely do!

Ask her about her best friend (preferably male)
If she has a best male friend, you can ask her about what she likes about him. It doesn’t have to be a male but knowing what she thinks about another man can greatly help you in becoming someone she’ll like a lot. I know, it sounds a bit long term but I’m just saying, it’s important to know what she sees in guys and most likely if she’s got a best friend that’s a guy she has some good things to say about him. She will probably tell you a lot of things and from there on you can pick some points that you can fix in your own personality. Just make sure not to completely follow all the things she tells you otherwise you may become just her friend too. You’re not meeting her to make friends. You’re meeting her to hopefully have sex with her.

Ask her if she has a nickname
People have nicknames and there’s usually a funny story behind it. Make her talk about her nickname. If no one calls her by a nickname at home, at least her friends may have called her by a nickname in some point of her life. Go in details and listen to the entire story. She will probably enjoy telling you about her story and that will keep going things smooth for you. This should be enough to break the ice and keep some conversations going. You must remember that you’re not there to grill her on anything, you’re just trying to get to know her more. You’re not going to make a friend for any NSA fun if she thinks you’re treating her like this is an investigation! Keep it loose goose!

How To Last Longer In Bed For Good


When you’re dating someone and you get the chance to bang them, the last thing you want to do is to come early! Coming earlier than desired while having sex has been a worldwide problem for a lot of men for years. There are tons of reasons why you may be experiencing premature ejaculation. While we worry a lot when we can’t last long, the problem is often very simple. I’m here to share a few tips which should help you last longer in bed. You need to know these if you’re using a site like Instabang where girls love to fuck uncontrollably for hours on end.

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Here’s How To Last Longer In Bed

One of the biggest reasons why men don’t last too long in bed is because they are often too excited about having sex. The excitement can lead to early release. Please note that it’s a well-known fact that men just don’t last as long as women when it comes to having sex. Men naturally tend to last 3 minutes on average while women can last 5-6 minutes on average during sex. This isn’t a long time, I know. But how long do you really need to get off right! As long as you’re getting laid that’s all that matters.

So, if you really want to make the girl you met on Instabang feel great and have her achieve an orgasm, then you need to control that excitement and try to last longer in bed. But if you have serious problems not lasting longer in bed, follow some of the tips below to help you increase your time. What’s even worse is getting off too soon and saying something stupid after sex. That’s a sure way to end your sex streak then and there.

Edging – Learn The Technique

Practice makes perfect. Lasting longer in sex is all about practice. If you aren’t getting the chance to practice sex with a partner, go ahead and masturbate every single day. Masturbation helps you to teach your body how to control your orgasm. There is a technique known as ‘edging’ which enables men to get very close to an orgasm and then stop and bring their excitement back to normal.

Edging has helped a lot of men deal with premature ejaculation. So sit down, think of the hottest girl you’ve ever banged, or log into the hookup site of your choice and start browsing through the naked pictures. Start pleasuring yourself and try edging as much as you can.

Squeeze Your Johnson

Did you know that when you are about to orgasm, squeezing the penis actually stops the orgasm from happening? This is because when you squeeze the penis just below the top, you reduce the pressure of the blood which in returns delay the orgasm.

You will have to tightly squeeze the penis right below the head to get maximum results. It’s okay if it hurts a little. Just don’t squeeze your unit to death! If things start turning purple that’s a really bad sign!

Use Delay Sprays

If all is lost and nothing is working for you. Try using delay creams or sprays during sex. Just remember that these cause numbing on your penis so you may not get the best out of sex. But they are strong enough to numb your penis so that the sensations are minimized and you can last longer. You may be able to find a few condoms that have this type of cream already on them to help you last longer in bed.

Try not to over-apply the cream or spray because then you may not feel anything at all and that will cause you to lose your erection very quickly. That’s the last thing that you want to do right!

These techniques should be pretty helpful when you actually get to the point where you’re ready to bang some hot girl you met online. Until then, keep practicing and keep using the Instabang dating app that you are using to find someone to bang.

Date Hookup Tips To Always Remember


I’m going to take some time today to share a few personal date hookup tips that have helped me become one of the most successful individuals getting laid online through the use of random hookup sites. These tips are applicable no matter what site you’re using. It truly doesn’t matter at all. Just read the tips and you’ll find out why.

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Date Hookup Tips That Continue To Get Me Laid

#1 Use The Search

Want to get lucky on any hookup dating site then you better be using the search to the best of it’s capability.

If you’re simply logging on and hoping to find someone who’s going to message you and instantly bang you then you’re dreaming. You need to search them out if you want to be successful. Go for the advanced search tools too.

#2 Always Follow Up

If you’ve gotten laid and you had a nice date with a girl or even just a nice lay, then you should follow up with her after the act.

Let her know she’s not just a wham bam thank you chick (even if she is) because there’s a good chance that you might be able to have sex with her again if you play your cards right.

Make sure you don’t say something stupid after having sex with her or you won’t need to bother following up.

#3 Pay For Things

I don’t care if she insists on paying. You do not let her pay! It makes you look so much better if you pay for things and in fact, that use to be the only way it worked in the past. Open your wallet up, do not be a cheap prick. Girls to want to bang cheapsters.

#4 Be Ready To Bang

I don’t care if you’re at the horse track in the middle of a park or at a Starbucks. You should be RTB, which means always be ready to bang! If she’s down to fuck then you better be down to do the same without some lame excuse of not being prepared.

Those are my four date hookup tips for the day. If you forget any of them, just revisit this post. Matter of fact, you should save this link somewhere so you can access it before every single date! These are what I’d consider ultra hookup tips! So use them or live without the bangs!


Rules For Messaging Girls On Dating Sites


Believe it or not, there are rules when it comes to messaging girls online through a dating website. Whether you’re a new member to a dating site or you’re contemplating joining one, I’d suggest you read and understand what I’m about to share with you. These tips are applicable regardless of what adult dating site you’re using. It’s inevitable that you’ll need to know this at some point in time so pay attention carefully…

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Important Rules For Messaging Girls On Dating Sites

Here’s a quick rundown for you on five things that you should never do when it comes to dating and messaging girls online.

Don’t Demand
If you sound too demanding then you’re never going to hear back from any girls. Demanding anything on a message that you send to a potential hook up will have girls running faster than Tina ran from Ike! She doesn’t work for you and you’re not the boss so cut that shit out!

Don’t Be Corny
I must also warn you that girls still do not like corny guys. They find them funny, cute and like to talk about them but they don’t like to bang them. Therefore, it’s in your best interest to not be a cornball or say anything too corny to her. For example, the “You must be sweating because you’re so damn hot” one-liners aren’t going to get you anywhere.

Don’t Look Desperate
If you look desperate the only thing a girl is going to do is for you is feel bad for you. They may take you out, make you pay but they won’t have sex with you if they think you’re desperate. So do not message a girl five times if she doesn’t respond. Just let it go and move on.

Don’t Say Strange Stuff
Girls that use online dating sites want to know that they are dealing with normal guys that just want some kind of no strings attached date, that’s all they want. They don’t want to hear something strange come out of your mouth. It’s only going to be a huge turn-off and make them think WTF, hell no!

Don’t Ask Her Out Right Away
This is pretty important. You must play it cool and not ask her out right away when you message her. Get to know that girl first before you ask her out. If you start to feel like you’re making progress then you can ask her out. If you go in for the kill too soon you’re bound to never succeed.

These are all pretty simple tips but they should help and you should definitely consider them to be staple rules for messaging girls online using any dating app or website of any nature.

Craigslist Dating And Why To Avoid It At All Times


Craigslist dating is some of the creepiest online ads that I’ve ever seen in my life. I’ve used a ton of online dating sites (both free and paid) and I’ve never come across creepier ads than those that I’ve encountered using Craigslist. Here’s an ad I found that should give you enough reasons as to why you should do your best to avoid using it if you’re trying to meet someone to bang.

Creepy Craigslist Dating Ad Posted on Valentine’s Day

For starters, here’s a snapshot of the ad that was published in a local Craigslist section in the Portland, Washington area.

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For starters, the ad was posted by a 55-year-old man looking for a roommate. His title indicated something along the lines of Roommates, friends, dating and some other creepy shit.

His ad stated that he was low maintenance and looking for a roommate of the opposite sex at around 45 years of age. He mentioned some shitty dating site called Plenty of Fish that literally never got me laid EVER! He then went on to talk about how it would be really cool to have a roommate that you become romantic with. This is really fucking distrubing, to say the least.

A couple of reasons why you want to avoid using Craigslist for any dating what so ever is because of the following:

Not Moderated – You literally have no idea (most of the time) what this person even looks like that’s placed the ad. There’s no verification and the site is basically not moderated at all.

No Guarantee – The site doesn’t offer any guarantee that you’ll be hooking up anytime soon. In fact, it’s just the opposite.

No Support – If you come across a situation where a date or meet up with someone goes bad, there’s really nothing that can be done about it. Because you’re not using a site like Instabang, you’re not going to get the stellar customer service that you normally would.

Honestly, if this isn’t enough reason for you to never ever use Craigslist dating then I don’t know what to say. I’d focus on spending time using better hook up sites that actually work instead of crappy Craigslist!

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What Does NSA Mean?


Hi everyone! Todd here and back on this beautiful day to help educate you on something important when it comes to dating. If you’re anything like me then you use dating sites on a regular basis in an attempt to get laid. If this applies to you, then there’s a good chance that you’ve come across a couple terms or acronyms that you might not be familiar with. One of those terms may, in fact, be the term NSA. I’m here to help you understand what that term means.

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What Exactly Does NSA Mean?

Well, the acronym NSA is an abbreviated way of saying “no strings attached” and it’s quite commonly used on sites that I frequent for hooking up. The idea behind no strings attached or NSA is that you can connect with someone that does not have the intentions of having a long term or serious relationship. Having “strings attached” is basically like saying you’re dating and are looking for someone to become a girlfriend or boyfriend. That’s not what NSA dating is about, though. In fact, it’s the complete opposite of that! Strings attached can be an absolute nightmare and I’m not even going to get into all of that today here. Instead, I’ll remain focused on the main topic!

Is NSA Better or worse?

If I had to give my personal opinion on this, I’d without a doubt have to say that NSA is far better than anything else. Any other way to date simply means that you have other obligations and things that you have to take into consideration when hooking up with someone. It can get complicated doing it this way. That’s why I prefer to come right out and explain to people that I’m only looking for an NSA relationship or experience and I do so right on my dating profile. I believe that taking any other approach is a waste of time really.

Now, if you’re looking to bang, then I suggest that you spend the entire day messaging people using the Instabang website messaging system. I’ll be doing the same because I want to find someone to fuck tonight! After all, it is Friday and it’s time to get down, get down!

Why Instant Hookups Are Better Than Long Term Relationships


I used to have a long-term girlfriend until I discovered what having hookups was like. There is absolutely no way that long-term relationships are ever going to be as fun as instant hookups. I’ve had both and I’m going to share a few reasons as to why I love and prefer instant hookup sex versus have a girlfriend any day of the week!

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Instant Hookups Are The Best, Here’s Why…

I’ve gone through my notes and here are the main reasons why finding an instant hookup online is the best way to get laid. I’m not going to waste your time with too much fluff here. Instead, I’ll get straight to the point.

Fewer Problems

The first reason why instant hookups are much better than long-term relationships aka love is the fact that you can have a one-and-done with no problems at all.

No hassles of having to communicate with the same person over and over. No boring sex that you’ll have to put yourself through. Instead, you can find someone local to hook up with and call it a day.

Less Expensive

Having instant hookups from time to time is much cheaper than getting into a relationship, especially if you’re using a website specifically catered to connecting individuals to hookups like the Instabang dating service.

New Experiences

Every hookup with someone new is a new experience. When you’re in a long relationship, you end up having the same experiences over and over. That gets extremely boring. So boring that I don’t think I’ll ever settle down again.

More Looking

The final reason why an instant hookup date is better than having a girlfriend is that tons of girls out there just want to get laid.

If I told you there were single girls in your local area who were just looking for nothing but something to bang them what would you say? You’d say heck yes! Show me who they are right?. Of course, you would.


These reasons should be enough for you to want to start searching for a few instant hookups yourself. If you’re taken and you just want to safely experiment online, then I suggest you do so very careful not to get caught or you just break up now.

If you’re single, join a site like Instabang for the ultimate hookup experience. As I said, I gave up on relationships long ago after I discovered how fun dating online really can be.

Where to Bring Your First Date You Met Online?


Pretty much everyone thinks of some variation of the movie and dinner combination of a first date schedule. But if you really want to get to know her and maybe make an impression, then you might want to employ your creative juices to flow a little and figure out what suits you two the best to carve a simple yet intelligent plan to make it a memorable time spent together.  It doesn’t matter if you met at Whole Foods or if you met on an online dating site like this one, you need to think outside the box and create an experience that will be engaging for both parties.

What is a Great First Date Location?

The possibilities are endless. Has there been some adventure activity that the two of you have been planning to take on, go on it together. Para-gliding? Glide along with the lady. Scooba-diving? Dive along together, or swim with the dolphins. Wanted to go trekking? Book a tour and travel together. This would no doubt make the usual eat and watch a movie routine look real dull and blurry. It would no doubt have the adrenaline rushing and thus stimulating and encouraging both of you to make the most of your time together. It wouldn’t be something easy to replace or just forget.

Or if you want something closer to home then perhaps taking some sort of a class together would not be a bad idea. It could actually workout real nice for both of you. For instance, you two could sign up for a salsa dance class. It will turn up the heat by just the right amount and the two of you will get to play around each other in a very lively environment which will tickle your chemistry, and that only helps. The salsa is generally not very complicated but relatively an easy going style of dance which easily incorporates couples steps in beautiful harmony which is quite accommodating for beginners.

If you both have a knack for cooking then you could spice things up by attending a class together for some exotic cuisine which appeals to both of you. It would be advisable to check in before-hand of the sign up requirements so there isn’t any embarrassment of last minute change of plans upon arrival. Also check up on the venue earlier so you do not waste any time hassling around trying to locate the venue. You want to come off as organized and responsible while keeping it casual at the same time, nobody likes a pushover.

Put on your planning hat and have a great time!